Monkey Chow
Selena’s Book Review:
READ THIS BOOK RIGHT NOW. HARD STOP.
Seriously, though, I want to read more books like this. I am so, so, so captivated by stories about the multiple identities of women, about the secrets people keep from those they love the most, about families and memories, and about the ghosts that haunt us. I love books that make me cry and that help me better understand some of my own complicated feelings.  This book did both. 
More books like this, please.

Selena’s Book Review:

READ THIS BOOK RIGHT NOW. HARD STOP.

Seriously, though, I want to read more books like this. I am so, so, so captivated by stories about the multiple identities of women, about the secrets people keep from those they love the most, about families and memories, and about the ghosts that haunt us. I love books that make me cry and that help me better understand some of my own complicated feelings.  This book did both. 

More books like this, please.

harperperennial:

We jokingly referred to these as Avocado Editions (the California version of our Olives) but it is serious business how sick this box set is. Like, I’ve-considered-booking-a-flight-to-California sick.
California Bookstore Day, May 3rd. Find out where you can get this here.

Now that we are *almost* homeowners and won’t be moving again for many, many years it’s time for me to start buying non-Kindle books again.  
This is going to be my first purchase.  
(Books and music about California stole my heart and imagination when I was young and are entirely responsible for my move out there. I could have lived there forever but I had to come back east to see about a boy.)

harperperennial:

We jokingly referred to these as Avocado Editions (the California version of our Olives) but it is serious business how sick this box set is. Like, I’ve-considered-booking-a-flight-to-California sick.

California Bookstore Day, May 3rd. Find out where you can get this here.

Now that we are *almost* homeowners and won’t be moving again for many, many years it’s time for me to start buying non-Kindle books again.  

This is going to be my first purchase.  

(Books and music about California stole my heart and imagination when I was young and are entirely responsible for my move out there. I could have lived there forever but I had to come back east to see about a boy.)

After work manicures and rosé with one of my best girls and home in time to put this little boy to bed. Nice way to start my long weekend.

After work manicures and rosé with one of my best girls and home in time to put this little boy to bed. Nice way to start my long weekend.

Life
  • On Monday I told Patrick’s daycare that we were moving and his last day would be next month. It was a really sad conversation for me to have because the women who work there are such a blessing. They’ve cared for Patrick five days a week since he was three months old and have played a HUGE role in his life. He gets so excited when we walk into his “school” in the mornings and is a big ball of happy when I pick him up. I know he’s loved and safe there and I feel so thankful that we have the ability to provide that kind of experience for him.
  • Last Friday we spent the day visiting potential daycare centers in Philadelphia. Jason was responsible for chasing Patrick around while he explored the spaces / toys / people and I was  responsible for asking the questions. (Team work!) It was a surprisingly exhausting day but the whole process was actually a lot easier the second time around. I have a lot of feelings on the early childcare industry in this country but I struggle with how to articulate it here in this space. The short story is this: We are so, so, so fortunate to have the options that we do. We know that and we are grateful. We found a daycare for Patrick that I’m confident is going to be a great fit for all of us. We’re going miss our place in Brooklyn so much. They built a solid foundation and I cannot wait to see what my boy does with it.
  • And shifting gears: We bought a dining room table yesterday! This is the first piece of new furniture for our house and it’s BEAUTIFUL! Now I’m currently trying to convince Jason that wooden chairs are too matchy and we need to get metal chairs instead.


Everytown is a movement of Americans working together to end gun violence and build safer communities. Gun violence touches every town in America. For too long, change has been thwarted by the Washington gun lobby and by leaders who refuse to take common-sense steps that will save lives.
But something is changing. More than 1.5 million mayors, moms, cops, teachers, survivors, gun owners, and everyday Americans have come together to make their own communities safer. Together, we are fighting for the changes that we know will save lives.
Everytown starts with you, and it starts in your town.

Everytown is a movement of Americans working together to end gun violence and build safer communities. Gun violence touches every town in America. For too long, change has been thwarted by the Washington gun lobby and by leaders who refuse to take common-sense steps that will save lives.

But something is changing. More than 1.5 million mayors, moms, cops, teachers, survivors, gun owners, and everyday Americans have come together to make their own communities safer. Together, we are fighting for the changes that we know will save lives.

Everytown starts with you, and it starts in your town.

Found while cleaning: Remnants of a former life - a disposable camera, a belly button ring, and a Cape Cod bracelet.

Found while cleaning: Remnants of a former life - a disposable camera, a belly button ring, and a Cape Cod bracelet.

Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?
Mary Oliver
Must get to a patio and order a glass of rosé ASAP.

Must get to a patio and order a glass of rosé ASAP.

Winter coat pocket contents: A bag of Nilla Wafers, three Eos lip balms, $4.36 in change, Dior lipgloss (643), a bottle of Essie’s Saturday Disco Fever, Afrin, keys, and my work badge. Just the essentials!

Winter coat pocket contents: A bag of Nilla Wafers, three Eos lip balms, $4.36 in change, Dior lipgloss (643), a bottle of Essie’s Saturday Disco Fever, Afrin, keys, and my work badge. Just the essentials!

Baked ziti everywhere!

Baked ziti everywhere!